the green grass theory

all of a sudden the grass on the other side seems to be greener! my brain knows its just a trick of my eyes but my eyes fail to realise that they r after all cheating each other. each one believes in what they see forgetting where they r! it'll just take a minute to look down n realise that the grass on which we r standing is also green.....maybe close-up it might be a different shade but still green is green!

i guess the term 'unique' has lost its value all of a sudden! everyone wants to be everyone, everywhere! creating an impression has become so important that the art of expression is lost. i have no intentions of generalising what i think but still there r just a handful who does the trick. this is phenomenon exists everywhere starting from a person below the poverty line to a highly successful business tycoon! a labrourer with daily wages wants watch a movie in a theatre with his loved ones to forget all his worries of they day for a couple of hours. where as the producer of the same movie commits suicide bcoz the returns were much lower than what he had expected! so tell me whoz happy here? the labrorer who is doubtful about his next meal or the producer who has too much that he is scared to lose everything! hmmm......what an irony *sighs*........

its just so hard to define happiness.......bcoz the minute we start doing that, we could be rest assured that it is literally lost. happiness has to be raw. undiluted. naked. primal. just PURE.......when we r capable of defining our happiness with a reason, that kind of happiness is short lived. when there is no reason to dilute our happiness it stays longer. whatever happens happiness still prevails coz we dont need a reason anymore! i could rather say everytime we have a reason to be happy, we just cling to it, wishing it stays longer. ya so whats wrong with that? whats wrong with wanting something to last longer?

ok incase the person u like the most gives u a hug, ull be very happy at the beginnng for its just wonderful to share the feeling of love n to be encapsulated in that moment......lets assume u r still in that tight embrace but that person is not leaving u n it has already been 2 minutes since u hugged! though u might reciprocate there r chances of u feeling uncomfortable also! ok so it has been 15 minutes now n u r still in that very same tight embrace n that person is not leaving u! ull start suffocating n wanna breathe in some oxygen n so will automatically start fighting that person to leave u! for all we know u might even call the police....:)

so what was happiness in the beginning became a nuisance at the end. if the hug had been short lived, the meaning of that moment would have been in ur heart for the rest of ur life! but since there was a cling to it, it was lost! thats the same with happiness. the minute we start clinging,it naturally transcends itself to sadness!

so now am happy not bcoz u actually managed to read the full blog, not bcoz u r gonna pass a comment, not bcoz there r chances of this having a profound effect in ur life.........but bcoz iam happy for what iam n the grass in my side might not necessarily be greener but it definitely serves some purpose when it is in my side :)...

hey but what if the grass on my side is actually blue....... :S....well its high time u celebrate it rather than getting confused bcoz ur friends on the other side r actually wondering whats wrong with them n not u... :P