Saturday, September 02, 2006

I Accept!

Ever heard ppl saying 'Dont think about the past coz its history, dont think about the future coz its a mystery, enjoy the present coz that is the present given to u'?

But the human mind, by default, has its way of accepting n rejecting the present that we recieve. Something which is good is always accepted but something which is bad is more or less rejected. Y does this happen?

When someone is doing something or is about to do something, in a way i dont want it to be done - n iam not able to accept it - I become angry. However, when someone is doing something or is about to do something, in a way i dont want it to be done - n iam able to accept it - I remain tolerent.

When someone has something which i dont have, or someone is able to produce the results which iam not able to produce - n iam not able to accept it - I become jealous. When someone has something which i dont have, or someone is able to produce the results which iam not able to produce - n iam able to accept it - I get inspired.

When iam encountering uncertainty or is about to encounter uncertainty, which iam not sure how iam going to handle - n iam not able to accept it - it causes fear in me. When iam encountering uncertainty or is about to encounter uncertainty, which iam not sure how iam gonna handle - n iam able to accept it - i feel adventurous about it.

When someone has done something that has emotionally hurt me - n iam not able to accept it - it develops hatred in me. When someone has done something that has emotionally hurt me - n iam able to accept it - it helps me to forgive them.

When someone is present in my thoughts, but is not physically present - n iam not able to accept it - i say 'Iam missing u'. When someone is present in my thoughts, but is not physically present - n iam able to accept it - I say 'Iam thinking about u'.

Then, emotional equation is quite simple.

Something + Acceptance = Positive emotion
Something + Non Acceptence = Negative Emotion

So let us start accepting everything that is put forward...good, bad or ugly.

As always, Excited to be alive.....

PS: Shucks.... I forgot that tag that i had to post.... anywayz i shall post in sometime...